Dear Sisters Lets wear proper hijab no matter what people say.

Assalamu alaikum dear Friends. Yesterday i read some suggestion words for HIJAB from abnormal reporter from local RSS minded News Paper in Whatsapp. I am greatly honored to be given the chance to give my views on this topic of Hijab. Is the word of Prophet Muhammad SAW and I believe its good to give dawah to our fellow Muslims so as to learn from each other. Jazakallahu khairan. May Allah reward you abundantly. As Muslims, we are supposed to dress decently. Yes, sometimes we are criticized, called terrorists because of our hijabs, but that doesn't matter as long as we are on the right path and doing what our Rabb ordered us to do. Our sisters are feel absolutely comfortable in their hijab knowing that she can go out completely dressed, not exposing her awrah to those people out there. Other times she being criticized and people call her “old fashioned” because she refuse to follow man-made fashion. Hijab is not a fashion item, as it is meant to protect her, so why wear tight jeans and small tops and confuse the real meaning of hijab? There are beautiful jilbabs that you can wear and still look modest. Dear sisters in Islam don’t let these Westerners fool u. They are finding all possible things to tarnish the images of us, Wearing hijab doesn't just mean you have to wear a piece of cloth over your head. There’s much more to it. Therefore dear sisters, Keep being you. Be the strong Muslim woman. Hold unto your deen and In sha Allah, Allah will guide us through. Aameen... Abu Muhammad Ayan

8 Signs Your Wife Might be Having an Affair

Marriage is not easy. Even the couples who love each other the most will face arguments, stresses, life changes, and many other difficulties. 1) Pulling Away: You might think that a cheating wife would be likely to pull away from your affections and detach herself from you. While this is sometimes the case, many cheating wives will actually do the opposite and will pay you more attention and affection whilst cheating as a way to alleviate guilt. Rather than looking at how your wife treats you, consider how she treats your friends and family members. If she used to call your mom on the phone but has recently cut off contact, or if she’s stopped planning get-togethers with your best friend and his wife, an affair is a real possibility. Cheaters don’t like to be around people who care about you, as these people serve to increase their guilt and confusion and also offer a reminder of the many people who would be hurt if the truth of the infidelity came out. Furthermore, many cheating wives worry that your close friends and family members will be able to tell something is amiss even if you can’t. 2) Becoming a cell-phone addict. Is your wife constantly getting phone calls? If this has always been the case, you may be able to disregard this cheating sign. But if the phone calls have greatly increased all of a sudden, and if your wife excuses herself to take them in private, cheating is a definite possibility. Bear in mind, however, that your wife may communicate with her lover through secret texts or via the computer as well. If these behaviors have increased and your wife is being sneaky about them, she could have something going on the side. In this case, try a mobile spy software. 3) Going out with “the girls”. If your wife has recently turned into a “social butterfly,” and especially if she was more of a homebody before, she could be sneaking out to spend time with her lover. Women in happy, healthy marriages should and often do have friendships outside of the marriage. However, in a healthy marriage these relationships always take a backseat to her relationship with you. If nights out “with the girls” have suddenly taken top priority, and if your wife dodges questions about who she’s seeing and where they’re going, you may have something to worry about. Be especially wary if her story changes or if you are unable to get into contact with your wife during her outings. 4) Nagging and nit-picking. Does it seem like your wife is constantly nagging at you? If she is nagging about big, important things you shouldn’t need to worry. But if her nagging has turned to nit-picking and you can’t seem to do anything right, she could be having an affair. Women who are cheating often feel a need to justify their unfaithful behaviors and, as a result, will seek to find fault in anything and everything you do. A woman who used to find your little idiosyncrasies endearing but who now rolls her eyes in disgust and launches into a tirade against them could be a woman who is finding love (or fulfilling lust) elsewhere. 5) Primping and preening. Let’s face it guys—after a few years of marriage, most women will let themselves go, at least a little bit. As your wife gets more comfortable with you, it’s normal for her to go a little longer in between hair cuts or to lounge in her pajama bottoms all day. While you might get excited if your wife suddenly starts exercising, coloring her hair, or dressing better, these behaviors could indicate the presence of a new love interest. It’s normal for women to want to look their best in the early stages of a relationship, so it makes sense for a cheating wife to suddenly take a new interest in her appearance. It could just be that your wife wants to rekindle the flame between the two of you and is trying her best to make herself more attractive. But more often than not, a change in appearance and grooming habits indicates something is amiss. 6) New best friend. If your wife can’t stop talking about “Kathy” from work or her new friend “Jill” who she met at the gym and, worse yet, if she’s going out with this new person on a regular basis, it might just be more likely that she’s actually hanging out with a Kurt or a Jim! Women have a desire to talk about what they’re doing, even if it’s a secret, and inventing a new female friend gives them a way to do that, as well as a convenient alibi for escaping on trysts with their new lovers. Insist on meeting this new friend, and if your wife makes excuses as to why you can’t then it’s probably time to start worrying. 7) Strange smells. When you live with someone for a long time, you get used to their special unique scent. If that unique smell is slowly morphing into something different, however, your wife has either developed some new hygiene habits or she may be having an affair. If she’s suddenly started smelling like men’s cologne, and it’s not yours, a lover is likely. Furthermore, if she comes home reeking of smoke and doesn’t smoke herself, or if you can detect alcohol on her breath when she claims she was working late or doing some other activity that shouldn’t have involved drinking, something’s not right. 8) Changes in sexual behavior. If your wife suddenly starts wanting more sex from you than ever before, you might feel like the luckiest man in the world. Don’t be so quick to count your blessings however. Any change in sexual behavior is often a big red flag that your wife is having an affair. She could be requesting more sex from you as a way to alleviate her own guilt. Or it could be that she’s having an emotional affair and using you as a way to satisfy her unfulfilled lust for someone else. Conversely, if you had a healthy sexual relationship in the past but your love life has suddenly gone kaput, this could mean that she’s finding what she needs elsewhere. None of these signs provide a surefire way to tell if your wife is cheating,

ಫೆಲೆಸ್ತೀನ್ ಪರ ದನಿಯೆತ್ತಿದ ಲಿಯೊನೆಲ್ ಮೆಸ್ಸಿ

ಇಸ್ರೇಲ್-ಗಾಝಾ ಸಂಘರ್ಷದಲ್ಲಿ ಫೆಲೆಸ್ತೀನ್ ಸಂತ್ರಸ್ತರ ಪರವಾಗಿ ದನಿಯೆತ್ತಿದ ಬಳಿಕ ಖ್ಯಾತ ಫುಟ್ಬಾಲಿಗ ಲಿಯೊನೆಲ್ ಮೆಸ್ಸಿ ಸ್ವತಃ ತಾನೆ ಸಂತ್ರಸ್ತನಾಗಿದ್ದಾರೆ. ಗಾಝಾದಲ್ಲಿನ ಹಿಂಸೆ ಕೊನೆಗೊಳ್ಳಬೇಕೆಂದು ಅರ್ಜೆಂಟೀನ ಮತ್ತು ಬಾರ್ಸಿಲೋನ ತಾರೆ ತನ್ನ ಫೇಸ್‌ಬುಕ್ ಪುಟದಲ್ಲಿ ಕರೆನೀಡಿದ್ದರು. ತನ್ನ ಫೇಸ್‌ಬುಕ್ ಪುಟದಲ್ಲಿ ಮೆಸ್ಸಿ ಗಾಯಗೊಂಡ ಫೆಲೆಸ್ತೀನ್ ಬಾಲಕನೊಬ್ಬನ ಚಿತ್ರವನ್ನು ಹಾಕಿದ್ದರು. ಇದರಿಂದ ಅಸಮಾಧಾನಗೊಂಡ ಇಸ್ರೇಲಿ ಪರ ಸಾಮಾಜಿಕ ಜಾಲತಾಣಗಳ ಬಳಕೆದಾರರು ಇಸ್ರೇಲಿ ಸಂತ್ರಸ್ತರ ಪರವಾಗಿಯೂ ಇದೇ ರೀತಿಯ ಹೇಳಿಕೆಯನ್ನು ನೀಡುವಂತೆ ಮೆಸ್ಸಿಯನ್ನು ಒತ್ತಾಯಿಸಿದ್ದಾರೆ. ‘‘ಈ ಸಂಘರ್ಷಕ್ಕೆ ಮಕ್ಕಳು ಕಾರಣರಲ್ಲ. ಆದರೆ, ಇದಕ್ಕೆ ಬೆಲೆ ತೆರುತ್ತಿರುವವರು ಮಕ್ಕಳು. ಈ ಮತಿಹೀನ ಹಿಂಸಾಚಾರದ ಸರಪಳಿ ನಿಲ್ಲಬೇಕು. ಸೇನಾ ಸಂಘರ್ಷಗಳ ಪರಿಣಾಮಗಳ ಬಗ್ಗೆ ನಾವು ಯೋಚಿಸಬೇಕು ಹಾಗೂ ಮಕ್ಕಳನ್ನು ರಕ್ಷಿಸಬೇಕು’’ ಎಂದು ಮೆಸ್ಸಿ ಹೇಳಿದ್ದಾರೆ. ‘‘ಓರ್ವ ತಂದೆಯಾಗಿ ಹಾಗೂ ಯೂನಿಸೆಫ್ ಸದ್ಭಾವನಾ ರಾಯಭಾರಿಯಾಗಿ ಇಸ್ರೇಲ್ ಮತ್ತು ಫೆಲೆಸ್ತೀನ್ ನಡುವಿನ ಸಂಘರ್ಷ ಹುಟ್ಟುಹಾಕಿರುವ ಪರಿಸ್ಥಿತಿಯನ್ನು ನೋಡಿ ನಾನು ನಡುಗಿಹೋಗಿದ್ದೇನೆ. ಇಲ್ಲಿನ ಹಿಂಸೆ ಈವರೆಗೆ ಅದೆಷ್ಟೋ ಎಳೆಯ ಜೀವಗಳನ್ನು ಹೊಸಕಿ ಹಾಕಿದೆ ಹಾಗೂ ಅಸಂಖ್ಯ ಮಕ್ಕಳನ್ನು ಗಾಯಗೊಳಿಸಿದೆ’’ ಎಂದು ಆಗಸ್ಟ್ 7ರ ಫೇಸ್‌ಬುಕ್ ಪೋಸ್ಟ್‌ನಲ್ಲಿ ಫುಟ್ಬಾಲ್ ತಾರೆ ಹೇಳಿದ್ದರು. ಇದಕ್ಕೆ ಪ್ರತಿಕ್ರಿಯಿಸಿರುವ ಇಸ್ರೇಲ್ ಪರ ಸಾಮಾಜಿಕ ತಾಣ ಬಳಕೆದಾರರು, ಗಾಝಾದಿಂದ ಹಾರಿಸಲಾದ ಮೋರ್ಟಾರ್ ಶೆಲ್ ದಾಳಿಯಲ್ಲಿ ಹತನಾಗಿರುವ ಇಸ್ರೇಲ್‌ನ ನಾಲ್ಕು ವರ್ಷದ ಮಗು ಡೇನಿಯಲ್ ಟ್ರೆಗರ್‌ಮನ್ ಘಟನೆಯನ್ನೂ ಖಂಡಿಸುವಂತೆ ಮೆಸ್ಸಿಗೆ ಕರೆ ನೀಡಿದ್ದಾರೆ. ಈಗ ಮೆಸ್ಸಿಯ ಮೂಲ ಫೇಸ್‌ಬುಕ್ ಪೋಸ್ಟನ್ನು ತೆಗೆದಿರುವಂತೆ ಕಾಣುತ್ತಿದೆ. ಆದರೆ, ಮೆಸ್ಸಿ ಅಭಿಮಾನಿ ಪುಟಗಳಲ್ಲಿ ಅದನ್ನು ಈಗಲೂ ನೋಡಬಹುದಾಗಿದೆ. ಮೆಸ್ಸಿ ಅಭಿಮಾನಿಯಾಗಿರುವ ಟ್ರೆಗರ್‌ಮನ್, ಜುಲೈ 8ರಂದು ಇಸ್ರೇಲ್ ಫೆಲೆಸ್ತೀನ್ ಮೇಲೆ ಬಾಂಬ್ ದಾಳಿ ನಡೆಸಲು ಆರಂಭಿಸಿದಂದಿನಿಂದ ಮೃತಪಟ್ಟ ಏಕೈಕ ಇಸ್ರೇಲ್‌ನ ಮಗು ಎನ್ನಲಾಗಿದೆ. ಮೆಸ್ಸಿಯ ಬಾರ್ಸಿಲೋನ ಜರ್ಸಿಯನ್ನು ಧರಿಸಿರುವ ಮಗುವಿನ ವಿವಿಧ ಚಿತ್ರಗಳನ್ನು ಸಾಮಾಜಿಕ ತಾಣಗಳಲ್ಲಿ ಹಾಕಲಾಗಿದೆ. ಸಂಘರ್ಷದಲ್ಲಿ ಈವರೆಗೆ ಕನಿಷ್ಠ 2,097 ಫೆಲೆಸ್ತೀನಿಯರು ಮೃತಪಟ್ಟಿದ್ದಾರೆ. ಅವರ ಪೈಕಿ ಹೆಚ್ಚಿನವರು ಮಕ್ಕಳೇ ಆಗಿದ್ದಾರೆ. 68 ಇಸ್ರೇಲಿಗರೂ ಪ್ರಾಣ ಕಳೆದುಕೊಂಡಿದ್ದಾರೆ.

BAN BAJRANG DAL

Dear Narendra Modi ji, you can be a secular leader like former prime minister Atal Bihari Vajpayee? "Vajpayee was also from the RSS but he was a modern man and he realized India has to be kept together. He had to forget the RSS ideology and carry every religion together. If you are secular leader prove it, Ban Bajarang Dal arrest this inhuman tendency of Bajarang Dal for celebrating the death of U R Ananthamurthy sir by firing crackers in the city, This is a very awkward act of Bajrang Dal. In entire India people are telling that DK is a district with intelligent and highly educated people. But now we have to bow our head in front of them. As a human i request you, please take hard action for this inhuman Terror. Jai Hind, Abu Mohammad Ayan

ನಿಮ್ಮ ಕೈಯಲ್ಲಿ ದುಡ್ಡು ನಿಲ್ಲೋದಿಲ್ಲ.. ಯಾಕೆ ಗೊತ್ತಾ..? ಇಲ್ಲಿವೆ ನಿಜವಾದ 5 ಕಾರಣಗಳು

ನಾವು ಇಷ್ಟು ಸಂಬಳ ಪಡೆದರೂ ದುಡ್ಡೇ ಉಳಿಸಲು ಆಗುತ್ತಿಲ್ಲವಲ್ಲ ಎಂದು ಅಲವತ್ತುಕೊಳ್ಳುವವರ ಸಂಖ್ಯೆ ಸಿಕ್ಕಾಪಟ್ಟೆ ಇದೆ. ಸಂಬಳ ಜಾಸ್ತಿಯಾದರೂ ತಿಂಗಳಾಂತ್ಯದಲ್ಲೇ ಅದೇ ಪರದಾಟ.. ಮುಂದಿನ ಸಂಬಳಕ್ಕಾಗಿ ತಡಕಾಟ... ಯಾಕೆ ಹೀಗೆ..? 1) ಕಟ್ಟದೇ ಉಳಿಸಿಕೊಳ್ಳೋದು... ಪ್ರತೀ ತಿಂಗಳು ನೀವು ಕಟ್ಟಬೇಕಾದ್ದನ್ನ ಬಾಕಿ ಉಳಿಸಿಕೊಳ್ಳುವುದು.. ನಿಗದಿತ ಅವಧಿಯೊಳಗೆ ಕಟ್ಟದೇ ದಂಡ ಹಾಕಿಸಿಕೊಂಡು ಪಾವತಿ ಮಾಡುವ ಅಭ್ಯಾಸವಿದ್ದರೆ ಕಷ್ಟಕಷ್ಟ... ನಿಮ್ಮ ಸ್ವಭಾವವನ್ನ ಬದಲಿಸಿಕೊಳ್ಳೋದು ಒಳ್ಳೇದು.. 2) ಪದೇಪದೇ ಸಾಲ ಮಾಡುವುದು.. ನಿಮ್ಮ ಅಗತ್ಯ ಮತ್ತು ಆಕಾಂಕ್ಷೆ ನಡುವಿನ ವ್ಯತ್ಯಾಸವನ್ನ ಗುರುತಿಸಿ ಮಧ್ಯಕ್ಕೆ ಗೆರೆ ಹಾಕಿಕೊಳ್ಳಿ. ನಿಮಗೆ ಅಗತ್ಯವೆನಿಸಿದ್ದಕ್ಕೆ ಮಾತ್ರ ಖರ್ಚು ಮಾಡುವ ಅಭ್ಯಾಸ ಮಾಡಿಕೊಳ್ಳಿ. ಕ್ರೆಡಿಟ್ ಕಾರ್ಟ್ ಇದೆಯಲ್ಲಾ ಅಂತ ದುಬಾರಿ ಖರೀದಿ ಮಾಡುವ ಪ್ರವೃತ್ತಿ ಇದ್ದರೆ ಈಗಲೇ ಅದರಿಂದ ಹೊರಬನ್ನಿ. ಸಾಲದ ಹೊರೆ ಹೆಚ್ಚಾದರೆ ನಿಮ್ಮ ಸೇವಿಂಗ್ ಪ್ರಮಾಣ ಕುಸಿಯುತ್ತದೆ... 3) ಶಾಪಿಂಗ್ ಹುಚ್ಚು.. ಹೊಸ ಡಿಸೈನ್ ಬಂದಿದೆ ಎಂದು ಆಕರ್ಷಕ ಜಾಹೀರಾತು ನೀಡುವ ಶಾಪಿಂಗ್ ಮಾಲ್'ಗಳತ್ತ ಕಣ್ಣು ಹಾಯಿಸದಿರುವುದೇ ಲೇಸು... ಐಟಂ ಚಂದ ಇದ್ದರೆ ಎಷ್ಟೇ ದುಡ್ಡು ಕೊಟ್ಟಾದರೂ ಅದನ್ನ ಖರೀದಿಸುವ ಛಲ ನಿಮ್ಮಲ್ಲಿದ್ದರೆ ಕಷ್ಟಕಷ್ಟ... ಐಟಂನ ಬೆಲೆ ನೋಡಿ ಖರೀದಿಸುವುದನ್ನ ರೂಢಿಸಿಕೊಳ್ಳಿ. 4) ಸಾಲದಲ್ಲೂ ಆದ್ಯತೆಗಳು... ಆದ್ಯತೆಗಳ ಮೇರೆಗೆ ನಿಮ್ಮ ಸಾಲಗಳನ್ನ ವರ್ಗೀಕರಿಸುತ್ತಿದ್ದೀರೆಂದರೆ ಸ್ವಲ್ಪ ಜಾಗೂರಕತೆಯಿಂದ ಇರುವುದು ಒಳ್ಳೆಯದು. ಯಾಕೆಂದರೆ, ನೀವು ನಿಮ್ಮ ಕೈಲಾಗುವುದಕ್ಕಿಂತ ಬಹಳ ಹೆಚ್ಚೇ ಪ್ರಮಾಣದಲ್ಲಿ ಸಾಲ ಮಾಡಿರುವುದು ಅದರ ಅರ್ಥ. ನೀವು ಮಾಡಿರುವ ಎಲ್ಲಾ ಸಾಲಗಳನ್ನ ಆದಷ್ಟೂ ಬೇಗ ತೀರಿಸುವುದರತ್ತ ಗಮನ ಹರಿಸುವುದು ಒಳ್ಳೆಯದು... 5) ಬ್ಯಾಕಪ್ ಹಣ ಇಲ್ಲ... ಸರ್ಕಾರೀ ಬಜೆಟ್'ಗಳಲ್ಲಿ ಅಥವಾ ಯಾವುದಾದರೂ ಸಂಸ್ಥೆಗಳಲ್ಲಿ ಎಮರ್ಜನ್ಸಿ ಫಂಡ್ ಅಂತ ಇಟ್ಟುಕೊಂಡಿರುತ್ತಾರೆ. ತುರ್ತು ಸಂದರ್ಭಗಳಲ್ಲಿ ಈ ಹಣ ಉಪಯೋಗಕ್ಕೆ ಬರುತ್ತದೆ. ನಿಮ್ಮಲ್ಲಿ ಇಂಥ ಬ್ಯಾಕಪ್ ಹಣ ಇಲ್ಲದಿದ್ದಲ್ಲಿ ಬಹಳ ಕಷ್ಟ. ಒಂದು ವೇಳೆ ನಿಮ್ಮ ಕೆಲಸ ಹೋದಾಗ, ಅಥವಾ ಇನ್ಯಾವುದಾದರೂ ಸಂದರ್ಭದಲ್ಲಿ ನೀವು ಆರು ತಿಂಗಳಾದರೂ ತಾಳಿಕೊಂಡು ಇರಬಲ್ಲಷ್ಟು ಬ್ಯಾಕಪ್ ಹಣ ನಿಮ್ಮಲ್ಲಿರಬೇಕು. ಹೀಗಾಗಿ, ನಿಮ್ಮ ಬ್ಯಾಕಪ್ ಹಣದ ಮೊತ್ತವನ್ನ ಏರಿಸುವುದರತ್ತಲೇ ನಿಮ್ಮ ಗಮನ ಇರಬೇಕು.