FEELING ALONE

ನಿನ್ನ ಬಿಟ್ಟು ನಂಗೆ ಬೇರೆ ಯಾರು ಸಿಗೋಲ್ಲ ಅಂತೇನು ಅಲ್ಲ. ನಿನ್ನ ಬಿಟ್ಟು ನಂಗೆ ಬೇರೆ ಯಾರ ಮೇಲೂ ಆಸಕ್ತಿ ಇಲ್ಲ

Touching Words

ಮೂವತ್ತು ವರ್ಷ ಸೌದಿಯಲ್ಲಿ ದುಡಿದ ವ್ಯಕ್ತಿಯೊಬ್ಬರು ಇನ್ನು ಊರಿಗೆ ಹೋಗಿ ಸೆಟ್ಲ್ ಆಗುವುದೆಂದು ತೀರ್ಮಾನಿಸಿ ಮಕ್ಕಾಗೆ ಹೋಗಿ ಉಮ್ರಾ ಮಾಡಿ ಬಂದರು. ಆ ಸಂತೋಷ ವಾರ್ತೆಯನ್ನು ಮನೆಗೆ ಹೇಳೋಣ ಎಂದು ಫೋನ್ ಎತ್ತಿದವರು ಐದೇ ನಿಮಿಷದಲ್ಲಿ ಕಣ್ಣೆವೆ ತುಂಬಿಕೊಂಡು ಬಂದು ಕಂಪನಿಗೆ ಕೊಟ್ಟ ರಾಜಿನಾಮೆ ಪತ್ರ ವಾಪಸ್ ಪಡೆದುಕೊಂಡು ಬಿಟ್ರು. "ಈ ವಯಸ್ಸಿನಲ್ಲಿ ಬಂದು ಇಲ್ಲಿ ಇನ್ನೇನು ಮಾಡ್ತೀರಾ ? ಅಲ್ಲೇ ಇದ್ರೆ ಸಂಬಳವಾದರೂ ಸಿಗುತ್ತಲ್ಲ" ಎಂಬ ಉತ್ತರ ಆ ಕಡೆಯಿಂದ ಸಿಕ್ಕಿತ್ತಂತೆ. ->ಆ ಕಡೆಯವರು ನೋಡಿದ್ದು ಇವರ ಹಣವನ್ನೇ ಹೊರತು ಈ ಕಡೆ ಇರುವ ಇವರನ್ನಲ್ಲ ಎಂಬುದು ಅವರಿಗೆ ವೇದ್ಯವಾಗಿತ್ತು.

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What is the ruling on offering congratulations on Friday

What is the ruling on offering congratulations on Friday, because now it is the custom in our country on Friday to send text messages and people congratulate one another on the occasion of Friday by saying “Jumu‘ah mubaarak” or “Jumu‘ah tayyibah.”. Praise be to Allaah. Firstly: There is no doubt that Friday is an “Eid” or “festival” for the Muslims, as it says in the hadeeth narrated from Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “This is a day of ‘Eid that Allah has ordained for the Muslims, so whoever comes to Jumu‘ah, let him do ghusl, and if he has any perfume let him put some on, and you should use the miswaak.” Eid al-Fitr and Eid al-Adha, which come once every year, and Jumu‘ah which is repeated once every week. Secondly: With regard to the Muslims congratulating one another on the occasions of Eid al-Fitr and Eid al-Adha, this is prescribed and it is narrated from the Sahaabah (may Allah be pleased with them). This has been discussed previously in the answers to questions As for congratulating one another on the occasion of Friday, what seems to us to be the case is that it is not prescribed, because the fact that Friday is an Eid was known to the Sahaabah (may Allah be pleased with them), and they were more knowledgeable than us about its virtues, and they were keen to respect it and give it its due, but there is no report to suggest that they used to congratulate one another on Fridays. And all goodness is in following them (may Allah be pleased with them). Shaykh Saalih ibn Fawzaan (may Allah preserve him) was asked: What is the ruling on sending text messages every Friday and ending with the phrase “Jumu‘ah mubaarak”? He replied: The early generation did not congratulate one another on Fridays, so we should not introduce anything that they did not do. End quote from Ajwabat As’ilah Majallat al-Da‘wah al-Islamiyyah. A similar fatwa was issued by Shaykh Sulaymaan al-Maajid (may Allah preserve him), when he said: We do not think it is prescribed to exchange congratulations on Fridays, such as saying to one another, “Jumu‘ah mubaarak” and so on, because it comes under the heading of du‘aa’s and dhikrs, which must be based on a text (of the Qur’aan or Sunnah) because this is purely the matter of worship and if it were good, the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and his Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) would have done it before us. If anyone suggests that this is permissible, then that may imply that it is prescribed to say du‘aa’s and congratulate one another after having done the five daily prayers and other acts of worship, and du‘aa’ at these times was not done by the early generations. If a Muslim prays for his brother on Friday with the intention of softening his heart and making him happy, and seeking the time when supplications are answered, there is nothing wrong with that. And Allah knows best. if you want to know about Islam, go study Islam not Muslims. Islam is perfect, Muslims are not. Please let's stop chasing people away from Islam by scaring them.

Dear Sisters Lets wear proper hijab no matter what people say.

Assalamu alaikum dear Friends. Yesterday i read some suggestion words for HIJAB from abnormal reporter from local RSS minded News Paper in Whatsapp. I am greatly honored to be given the chance to give my views on this topic of Hijab. Is the word of Prophet Muhammad SAW and I believe its good to give dawah to our fellow Muslims so as to learn from each other. Jazakallahu khairan. May Allah reward you abundantly. As Muslims, we are supposed to dress decently. Yes, sometimes we are criticized, called terrorists because of our hijabs, but that doesn't matter as long as we are on the right path and doing what our Rabb ordered us to do. Our sisters are feel absolutely comfortable in their hijab knowing that she can go out completely dressed, not exposing her awrah to those people out there. Other times she being criticized and people call her “old fashioned” because she refuse to follow man-made fashion. Hijab is not a fashion item, as it is meant to protect her, so why wear tight jeans and small tops and confuse the real meaning of hijab? There are beautiful jilbabs that you can wear and still look modest. Dear sisters in Islam don’t let these Westerners fool u. They are finding all possible things to tarnish the images of us, Wearing hijab doesn't just mean you have to wear a piece of cloth over your head. There’s much more to it. Therefore dear sisters, Keep being you. Be the strong Muslim woman. Hold unto your deen and In sha Allah, Allah will guide us through. Aameen... Abu Muhammad Ayan

8 Signs Your Wife Might be Having an Affair

Marriage is not easy. Even the couples who love each other the most will face arguments, stresses, life changes, and many other difficulties. 1) Pulling Away: You might think that a cheating wife would be likely to pull away from your affections and detach herself from you. While this is sometimes the case, many cheating wives will actually do the opposite and will pay you more attention and affection whilst cheating as a way to alleviate guilt. Rather than looking at how your wife treats you, consider how she treats your friends and family members. If she used to call your mom on the phone but has recently cut off contact, or if she’s stopped planning get-togethers with your best friend and his wife, an affair is a real possibility. Cheaters don’t like to be around people who care about you, as these people serve to increase their guilt and confusion and also offer a reminder of the many people who would be hurt if the truth of the infidelity came out. Furthermore, many cheating wives worry that your close friends and family members will be able to tell something is amiss even if you can’t. 2) Becoming a cell-phone addict. Is your wife constantly getting phone calls? If this has always been the case, you may be able to disregard this cheating sign. But if the phone calls have greatly increased all of a sudden, and if your wife excuses herself to take them in private, cheating is a definite possibility. Bear in mind, however, that your wife may communicate with her lover through secret texts or via the computer as well. If these behaviors have increased and your wife is being sneaky about them, she could have something going on the side. In this case, try a mobile spy software. 3) Going out with “the girls”. If your wife has recently turned into a “social butterfly,” and especially if she was more of a homebody before, she could be sneaking out to spend time with her lover. Women in happy, healthy marriages should and often do have friendships outside of the marriage. However, in a healthy marriage these relationships always take a backseat to her relationship with you. If nights out “with the girls” have suddenly taken top priority, and if your wife dodges questions about who she’s seeing and where they’re going, you may have something to worry about. Be especially wary if her story changes or if you are unable to get into contact with your wife during her outings. 4) Nagging and nit-picking. Does it seem like your wife is constantly nagging at you? If she is nagging about big, important things you shouldn’t need to worry. But if her nagging has turned to nit-picking and you can’t seem to do anything right, she could be having an affair. Women who are cheating often feel a need to justify their unfaithful behaviors and, as a result, will seek to find fault in anything and everything you do. A woman who used to find your little idiosyncrasies endearing but who now rolls her eyes in disgust and launches into a tirade against them could be a woman who is finding love (or fulfilling lust) elsewhere. 5) Primping and preening. Let’s face it guys—after a few years of marriage, most women will let themselves go, at least a little bit. As your wife gets more comfortable with you, it’s normal for her to go a little longer in between hair cuts or to lounge in her pajama bottoms all day. While you might get excited if your wife suddenly starts exercising, coloring her hair, or dressing better, these behaviors could indicate the presence of a new love interest. It’s normal for women to want to look their best in the early stages of a relationship, so it makes sense for a cheating wife to suddenly take a new interest in her appearance. It could just be that your wife wants to rekindle the flame between the two of you and is trying her best to make herself more attractive. But more often than not, a change in appearance and grooming habits indicates something is amiss. 6) New best friend. If your wife can’t stop talking about “Kathy” from work or her new friend “Jill” who she met at the gym and, worse yet, if she’s going out with this new person on a regular basis, it might just be more likely that she’s actually hanging out with a Kurt or a Jim! Women have a desire to talk about what they’re doing, even if it’s a secret, and inventing a new female friend gives them a way to do that, as well as a convenient alibi for escaping on trysts with their new lovers. Insist on meeting this new friend, and if your wife makes excuses as to why you can’t then it’s probably time to start worrying. 7) Strange smells. When you live with someone for a long time, you get used to their special unique scent. If that unique smell is slowly morphing into something different, however, your wife has either developed some new hygiene habits or she may be having an affair. If she’s suddenly started smelling like men’s cologne, and it’s not yours, a lover is likely. Furthermore, if she comes home reeking of smoke and doesn’t smoke herself, or if you can detect alcohol on her breath when she claims she was working late or doing some other activity that shouldn’t have involved drinking, something’s not right. 8) Changes in sexual behavior. If your wife suddenly starts wanting more sex from you than ever before, you might feel like the luckiest man in the world. Don’t be so quick to count your blessings however. Any change in sexual behavior is often a big red flag that your wife is having an affair. She could be requesting more sex from you as a way to alleviate her own guilt. Or it could be that she’s having an emotional affair and using you as a way to satisfy her unfulfilled lust for someone else. Conversely, if you had a healthy sexual relationship in the past but your love life has suddenly gone kaput, this could mean that she’s finding what she needs elsewhere. None of these signs provide a surefire way to tell if your wife is cheating,